This is the day for selecting someone to touch bringing back ancient wedding traditions being that a boy during the May pole as a child is separated when aroused when the naked dancing women tease during a celebration and the boys would represent fire while the girls would be wood so the males are to learn all of the elements to put out the fire before it reaches the wood and air is the final step or selection process where the line up created for every single woman has an object placed at her feet to remind everyone that she is not a possession and the men are only there to be sent away while one by one they point at an object so that she may choose who wins and is able to touch her or join with her wood or would if he were to point at his own object otherwise maybe he is giving a suggestion of what maybe he think it should be from being alone with the boys away from her