It may not be good to be told that when we die we suddenly reunite with our loved ones in a magical place that is somewhere else for all eternity because in reality this is all that we have and it is not going to become everything that you ever wanted after you had lost it all merely because you are a good person or whatever?
In the bible what had separated the Heavens from the Earth was the very first compass that was a fallen star fragment stroked against someone loved enough times in the same direction until a magnetic charge was created enough to point the observer to the direction of the sky or otherwise known today as the North.
Is it good for grown adults never to face the facts of life?
We are in Heaven right now which is a place on Earth or maybe you are located somewhere further South where violence may have first occurred among other things?
America is Heaven to Mexico which would be Earth or the land of the Sun since their ancestors came from the sky originally so the Golden Gates might be somewhere crime ridden such as the city of angels, Los Angeles.
Heaven for France that was once England seemed to have moved to America with Lady Liberty's torch so that the fire would have been extinguished while walking all the way across the Atlantic Ocean before reaching the would..
Everyone who had lived responded to eternity as science has proven that mass bends time and while dreaming or thinking the mind and our nervous system existed on a plane outside of normal observed time similar to how light moves at such an incredible speed that time halts.
Every person goes very far into both the past and the future while they had lived during their sleep thanks to how our minds are capable of using light to connect to others in different time periods as the speed of our mind slows time and even while awake it is impossible not to be connecting with others constantly sharing gravity.
Whenever we dream of other people they have had the same dream but at a different place and time where they had likely woken up remembering nothing outside of what is trying to wake us up to save us while we lived.
It is not uncommon to be tricked into thinking that someone in a dream is actually someone else completely. A person who has the same look may be used for giving that vision or lesson needed to prevent potential harm.